In this story of Jesus with Mary and Martha, what is it that distracts Martha? And from what is she distracted? A common answer is that Martha is distracted by her serving, and that her service distracts her from sitting at the feet of Jesus (like Mary).
At first glance it might look like that. And in the time of Jesus the usual place place for women was not at the feet of the teacher. It is significant that, whatever might be going on for Martha, Jesus affirms the place of Mary at his feet learning as a disciple. And this cannot be taken away from her. In the discipleship of Jesus women and men together are called to serve as Jesus served and to learn at the feet of Jesus.
But a closer look at the story reveals something else as well is going on for Martha other than being distracted by her act of serving Mary and Jesus. She appears resentful of Mary leaving her to do all the work. Maybe it is this resentment that is distracting her from her service as an act of hospitality and discipleship. Her heart is split by her resentment and her work is losing its character as service.
Look at it this way: if Martha was not resentful, but was freely and happily offering her service to Jesus (and her annoying sister), would there be any need for Jesus to say what he said? Would Jesus have called her over to say she should follow Mary’s lead and sit at his feet at that moment? I doubt it. Jesus doesn’t split discipleship and service. And so much discipleship is carried out in the context of hospitality, the kind of hospitality that Martha is displaying. (Luke 10:5-9 comes to mind.)
During bible study on Friday, Jesus’ empathy for Martha in her distractedness was noted. Jesus does not scold Martha; he gently says her name, and in this gentleness corrects her. It is a subtle feature of the text, but beautiful nonetheless.
It should also be noted that this story follows immediately on from the Parable of the Good Samaritan. That parable is all about loving service. Jesus is in no way suggesting that the Good Samaritan is being distracted! But just in case the reader misses the point, acts of loving service and learning from Jesus go together. Disciples are Good Samaritans and Marys sitting at the feet of Jesus.
For a previous post on this story of Martha and Mary, see here.
